Again, telling people to get out of or stay out of relationships with an aspect that you in particular think will cause them harm is not healing in any aspect of the word. Thanks SO much for your kind words. It wasn't enough for me to have sex with him though. on Dejanira and Nessus. I know there are astrologers who make every aspect positive but I dont think that is real and real is what heals and real is what gets people mad at you too lol. You made my day, Juice and Welcome! and DW : womans Nessus (13 Gemini) opposite mans Juno ( 12 Sag). This is a difficult aspect, but the couple often meets in this life to try and heal the wound. The Sun person naturally understands who the Moon person is and vice versa. Your feelings are not fact. Everyone should have one once in a lifetime, I suppose. YES. She is deeply alluring and irresistible. I think most people of the same time period would have it though, so it is not that big of a deal, I think. My Dejanira is square his venus (-0a) and conjunct his vertex (0s). He has a strong nessus (conjunct with his sun + true node in cancer ). The chart never lies, my Friend. Eros and Venus in a synastry chart! It was a relationship based on dates and romance instead of the realities of life. How do we honor Lilith in our lives? Are they married, Lo. We also have mars opposite pluto (Im pluto) in synastry. 4. Astrology 101 Astrophilosophy 1.8K subscribers Subscribe 119 3K views 1 year ago Eros and Venus in. Mars conj Saturn is not good. That is why it is so powerful. Love,
I will come back and answer when I have time to really look at the details. My dejanira is in opposition to his sun and without any other aspects. There is so few information on these aspects so I really appreciate reading more about it here and in the forum. Unlike Juno/Saturn aspects, Juno in aspect with the South Node does not necessarily indicate that marriage in this life will be a force. You interpret things based off of your own view. TEA & ROSEMARY LLC. Does the man walk up to you and tell you that he wants to abuse you because you seem like the perfect victim? This is my opinion and other people may differ but I call things as I see them, Mandy dear. This can indicate marriage, but it can also indicate a long-term romantic or sexual relationship. I do find it funny that I have Dejenira in 5 deg Sag, since most of my arch enemies were Sags. Youll always want to look at the chart as a whole, read everything as a metaphors, and use your intuition. I dont think you can draw the concrete conclusion you did from these aspects. Ami, hello. I have very wide-orbed Eros-Lilith contacts (not conjunctions) in my two last relationships (they are Eros, I'm Lilith), but both relationships were so 8th house-oriented and Plutonian that it's hard to tell where Lilith comes in. However, there is a flip side. . And when you really think about it this line of thought deserve to be abused is quite sociopathic in nature. Posts: 376From: Western Massachusetts, USRegistered: May 2009. The Basic House Rulers23 Simple Steps for Beginners. tell me your story, if you care to, Juice dear. I also found out that my Nessus is 1 degree conjunct my current boyfriends Sun(Cancer). The issue is telling people that are in healthy relationships or people that are around a couple in a healthy relationship, that those aspects will certainly play out no matter what. Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. I love you and hope you write to me to say hello or to ask questions. YOU are the most important person to me. I always question the role of house overlays and given this topic the 8th house comes to mind. It may seem challenging but we share many conjunctions and trines/sextiles. As for MY natal chart I also have mars and Saturn conjunct in Scorpio. Theyre both devoted and kind people and Ive known her since we were teens. She is raw sexuality which will not be dark if it touches Venus imo and Welcome , what if I have my Lilith conjunct his juno and his venus. I am honored to have you as a valued member of my website family , Ivs, why dont you come put your chart in my Personal Readings Forum. its more like the astrology helps me to fill in the pictures. I always seem to have the opinion that these people are somewhat evil yet gullible and innocent and therefore they deserve to be abused. Hi Oops, sorry Amiann. You find them sexually attractive. What if a man has Dejanira conjunct a womans Sun? I found your site a short time ago and learned a lot, very descriptive in the analysis, I love it! Is there any way this could play out in a positive manner or should I watch my back? They may cause each other significant pain and strife, but God help any outsider who dares to point it out. I think theres a trine or sextile to other asteroids but nothing major. Thank you, Eros/Pluto/Lilith together makes for one powerful combination. and should I post the picture of the chart (I usually get it from astro.com)? For your daughter, watch out she does not get sexually abused. And as far as I know theres a strong correlation between nessus and psychopaths/abusers. I read all these comments and yes they are interesting. Lilith is not dark, per se, Friend. We also had a Juno Vertex conjunction. I came across your blog post and so went through my charts looking for couple friends and this one came up as having the conjunction. I have Dejanira in Pisces in the 4H. Copyright [the-year] [site-link] | This website is intended for entertainment purposes only. Also, our vertexes are conjunct in the same degree. Why dont you come and put the chart up on my Forum? I am sorry! Eros thrills, scares and creates intense bonds. Sun person helps Lilith person recognize their subconscious gifts and strengths. Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. I'm not typically the "make him suffer" type, but holy wow did it all come rushing out with him. Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 . Just from reading this, I think it looks very good but I really need to see the wheel as it is easier. . Hi Amiann, how do you think nessus square neptune would play out in synastry, lets say if its almost exact. Considering the sexual aspect of it all, though, I'm betting the pay off was satisfying at least, haha. Eros isnt making any connections to either Dejanira or Nessus though. Lovely and very filled with passion! However, if you want me to help you to find Jesus, that is why I am here. I have only had this fantasy with him along with begging him and many many other fantasies. Btw he just got married to a girl whose moon is conjunct with his nessus+sun+true node AND also, her dejanira is conjunct with his moon !!! Sometimes I nurture sometimes he does. Can it be dangerous amiann? PROSERPINA conjunct EROS (055') IP: Logged. Also, I discovered that my daughter has Dejanira conjunct her 2H Virgo Moon(3 deg. I believe her Dejanira is conjunct his Nessus by one degree. No worries. Could it be a past life meaning? It's been suggested that an understanding of someone's natal Eros gives you the keys to unlock their erotic desires. Your analysis is lovely. It "wakes up those areas inside of us and causes us to express them sexually, free from the restrictions of reality. His sun/jupiter/neptune/venus are on my venus/saturn trouble spot in scorp. Eros is also prominent in their synastry. M. What are the exact Sun/pluto aspects Maria? In Roman mythology, Eros was known as Cupid. I seem to be one of the rare people doing it lol. I dont pay that much attention to Deja conj another asteroid. Mars pluto aspects Lets hope more info comes out about this connection.:). Thanks! First of all Lilith is for . Who does whom, so to speak? Drawing that authoritarian feminine energy into the already present power themes must have been really overwhelming, just flooding in from every corner. I would say that there must be wonderful soul connections that keep down the abuse that would come up without these. Is it a similar power to the conjunction? To make it simple for those of you who are on the same path, Ive rounded up the top 5 placements that indicate a past life marriage. There was some sort of karma created, whether the relationship was painful or whether one person abandoned it. And The chart allows one to see oneself. Would appreciate some insight!! Your articles hit me hard again:-). This vertex conjunction shows up again like in my previous relationship. That is my commitment to my readers. Please, keep me posted though but, yes, please, be careful, Love! Great primal connection with fighting lol. One person is kind of riding the other one in this. I dont even have tattoos or my ears pierced. Could you specify what you mean by abuse (subtle, verbal, violent etc.?)? I seemed to be destined to study and use Nessus and Deja. I'm really only just starting to get to know Eros well, and Lilith is still somewhat elusive. Also, there is no abuse either way. so, quick question, where do I post it? It is really rocking my world right now <3. If it feels too, too good to be true, it often is. You can have Mars/Pluto with a fling and not feel a thing in your emotions.We have the same kind of weighting with the conjunction, trine, opposition and square as we did above. Groom conjunct the Vertex. Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. The conjunction is especially strong, but the trine, square, and opposition can also indicate a past life connection or marriage. The relationship seems to end in a certain way, too. Please post the charts. This is another clear-cut past life astrology marriage aspect, although it isnt as heavy. It doesnt always make for the easiest of relationships, because both people come into the marriage with the weights of the past life issues, but it definitely has staying power. There are some other great planet aspects but I am very curious about the ones I listed. Thank you, amiann. I suppose you have choice on whether to act on it. Vertex conjunct the ascendant is a frequent synastry aspect in the charts of romantic partners. But interested to see how things unfold. Eros represents our passionate and erotic energy and how we use it. How about choose one aspect and I will try to help, T. Not to be rude, but this is incredibly fatalistic. I just got into astrology a month ago and find it fascinating. Pick your top two questions and I will try to help, my Friend! However, this person would have to play it out before he overcame it. I know this came off a bit more forward, but only because I want to make it clear that one persons feelings are not fact. If your Dejanira conjuncts his ASC, Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus or NN, you will be his victim. They often indicate a desire to sexually conquer/arouse one another. It wasn't until he began to withhold sex from me that I finally crumbled. I just want to let people know that things are not as clean cut and set in astrology as it is written sometimes because things that are presented as the only possible, likely truth will make people will fear astrology and the people around them if they look into isolated aspects from small asteroids and planets alike. Telling people that something will happen to them because of an aspect is what you in particular FEEL is going to happen, but that is not the truth. I generally cannot stand them, and their tendency to be arogant and conceited towards anyone who doesnt think the way they do does come across as downright abusive to me. Coming from a standpoint of being an archaeologist, we can interpret and theorize things ourselves all we want, but an archaeologist telling a crowd of people that their own interpretation of the past is the TRUTH would not only be incredibly wrong, but it would also be detrimental to people that no nothing about interpreting and analyzing archaeological sites, therefore they would take that persons word even though it is not truth. It gives no leg room, and its fearful to people. I asked if I could post their charts but my friend isnt comfortable with it. And thank you for this article, I should have said that before. His makes two major squares to her inner planets. There are many past life synastry charts that dont show marriage through these 5 obvious aspects, but its clear from reading the whole chart that the pair had a significant relationship in a past life. Two celestial bodies are in conjunction when they are very close to each other, often in the same sign but never more than 8 degrees apart. 5. When she contacts Eros in another, the answer to that question is found in the heart of a powerfully erotic relationship. This only works with a synastry chart, and (as always) is simply my own opinion! The nessus and deja conjunction is in Cancer. Eros & Psyche in. Sorry if its too much info xx, Ps, sorry! It does indicate that both partners knew each other in a past life, but other romantic aspects are needed in the chart to create an energy strong enough for a marriage. It seems like sexual abuse is an emotional theme that I am working with in this life. Well you may want to take advantage of their trust and innocence. Does that fit and I applaud your willingness to face yourself. In my studies and usage of them, they play out to be the abuser and the victim. You never want to leave your beloveds side until they put you in the grave. I do charts for the people who want them. What does Nessus and Dejanira mean when conjuncting each other? Hats off to your courage. Same natal chart of a man who is 41-42 years old. Hmm Did you know I had one? PS I checked the synastry of a man I know for sure was abused by his own father physically and emotionally, throughout his childhood, and this mans Nessus is conjunct his fathers Sun. Lilith desires sacred sex above all things. Yes, their Moons are trine both in Earth signs. I am not mad, I am correcting you for instilling fear in people with your claim to truth. Hey there! Its not a square but there isnt much info out there on the conjunction. his moon is in cancer so depending on what time hes born, there are 2 scenarios :1) my Saturn squares his moon but my sun and north node would conjunct it 2) my Pluto would square his moon but our moons would be in trine. This transit is positive as well as painful, destructive and revelatory. He may have little sympathy for her weakness. What about a mars 8th house overlay also trining pluto? ? To summarize, I would say that Mars/Pluto could be passionate sex and passionate emotions but no soul.If a chart had no Moon aspects and Mars/Pluto aspects, I would say it would be a fling. The Five Darkest, Sexual Aspects in Synastry. Our mars are square (aquarius:leo) also. I know somebody whose Moon conjuncts his Dejanira (30 minutes). Im not meaning to argue if it sounds like it, its just damaging for ignorant people to come find posts saying that bad asteroids are always going to play out no matter what they do because that leads them to believe that everything in astrology is linear and has only a small set of possibilities that people cannot escape. His dejanira is in opposition to his vertex. It is not as intense as the conjunction but very intense, nonetheless. They play out to have a certain pattern to the relationship. I dont want people to get the wrong idea and then get scared over a small aspect. What about this aspects? . I have no vested interest in any asteroid or any placement being any way other than my being able to help people. Thats fatalistic and leaves the image that the entire rest of the charts and people themselves are completely victim to two asteroids that are being portrayed as always playing out when they really do not always do so. We enter the month of February, with lust, love and passion. It is just the North Node, after all, not a personal planet. The Fortuna would, likely, bring good fortune to the vertex person, likely in the arena of money. As a result, this aspect can feel like opening a can of worms that literally fly, not crawl, out of the unconscious. Which probably held it together for SO long. I reply to the comments out of order because I do it on the central comment form. Nessus and Dejanira do most certainly not mean abuse. My Fortuna conjuncts precisely his Dejanira and Moon. It brings you back to the time when you were a child and truly powerless. If other aspects and planets in the chart point to marriage, then it was probably a romantic, attractive marriage where the couple did not see each other all day, did not share a bedroom, had a large household staff, lived apart, etc. We need to look at the whole chart to see the whole story. Ami, no one can describe astrology better than you. You may be fated to marry. It is like sky diving. Lilith Conjunct Ascendant Synastry Sun Conjunct Lilith Synastry This connection will burn as hot as the sun! Do these asteroids have to be conjunct planets or square each other to be dangerous? What are your thoughts? That Pluto/DSC has been a source of confusion and frustration for me for a while, but now it makes sense. Moon oppose Pluto and Moon square Pluto could tend to be dark because they are powerful and not with a harmonious flow. Required fields are marked *. Great questions. Ami, Christian Psychic Readings & Astrology Charts for All Faiths. This is not a dark aspect, either. Their capacity for intimacy and shared desire to melt into the fires of transformation is nothing short of total risk, which each are compelled to take- no questions asked. so what would it be? You are so welcome, Britt and thanks so much for telling me that you like it. More about Synastry (relationship Astrology) Intermediate and advanced students of Astrology might enjoy our article, SoulMate . What does this conjunction mean in a synastry? It is desire, it is passion and love. If you do this, Astrology will serve its purpose, which is to warn and alert people to possible problems and even dangers. In this case Nessuus is retro in conjunction with the North node. Well, I have been thinking about the situation. Also my true node is at 22 Cancer close to my nessus (conjunction?) You example above is only if a woman has Dejanira conjunct a mans ASC, Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus or NN, you will be his victim. Any feedback on the roles being reversed? It is real to be neutral. Welcome, Ariel and great questions. Thank you so much, Love. Welcome, Britt. In this video we will discuss the aspects between #Sun and #Eros in a synastry chart in Mix - Eros and Sun in Synastry! I had this excerpt saved from somewhere on the internet, but don't have the original source. xxx, This may make Nessus and what it means i.e abuse, something that is a deep subject with you and on one which you contemplate. Lilith brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger and rage. vertex conjunct moon and ascendant in scorpio can make it dark too? My venus is conjunct someone's eros right now. Its completely okay to stand by what you wrote. the Moons will make for best friends. I wouldnt think my mars/Pluto semisextile is as strong though it can do damage. It is not good to have a base level view on what will happen with one isolated aspect. You can think that Im mad that what youre saying is real all you want, but the only thing that bothered me is your fatalistic outlook and claim of truth that is actually not real. Deep soul love, incredibly painful at times. Lastly, with me having moon conjunct neptune in my natal and venus in my 12th house, does that make me similar to venus in pisces xxx I ask because I attract men with mars in pisces and men who have pisces as a descendant/7th house , Hi Ami, Do you have any advice for me? Your email address will not be published. Thank you, Kay <3 From the outsider's perspective, Eros and the Ascendant person will seem as if they are living the romantic experience only witnessed in films. There is precious little practical info out there on asteroids. 8. My eros was conjunct someone's mars and I did feel like whenever he was sexual, it was very erotic. We talk about it often (3rd house moon overlay) its just a bit overwhelming sometimes like a sweet dream one moment, then an absolute nightmare. And my dejanira conjunct his Venus. in the 12th house, you might be safe in assuming that there was a marriage or long-term relationship in a past life. I am worried about being the abuser here. So the theory doesnt check out. It is typical cat and mouse game with taboo twists. You both feel admiration for each other. Is there a positive aspect to this connection? IF the chart does not seem right, then I think the time of birth is off. I just found out my abusers Moon is 1 degree conjunct my Dejanira. Not sure which one id prefer. I have this kinky fantasy specifically for him putting a really big needle into me as part of a medical procedure but this isnt my kink or fetish. I do Astrology the way that I would want to learn it. With mercury and Uranus in Scorpio. That is most certainly not the truth. Double whammy of Mars-Uranus in our synastry chart. The charts tell all. It seems like the man of your childhood dreams walked out of the ether into your life like the larger than life heroes on the movie screens. And how would his Saturn conjunct her dejanira play out? This brings out their dark side. It makes me feel very crazy. Does the man walk up to you and tell you that he wants to abuse you because you seem like the perfect victim? I am prone to being attacked in this way. Connections between the Vertex and the lunar nodes are also indicators of past life in synastry. Thank you, Amiann. However, it's recommended to do an individual birthchart analysis before analyzing the Synastry to see the personal needs and potential for maintaining a healthy relationship. This will be HOT. However, if the time is right, for sure, I would trust the chart over a personal account. Is this you? Karmic astrology synastry is suddenlyreally interesting when you want to look at your own relationship. I feel like it helps me. About YOU being the Nessus with your b/f. What conjuncts your Aura? As you know, or can find from my directory, Eros and Psyche are my favorite asteroids. I wasnt abused as a child in any way. Relationships that provoke her and Eros, although excruciatingly potent at times, serve as a meeting place for both divine figures. Hardly. Dejanira is the victim asteroid. Uranus is kink, so you do the math. Thanks :), Thats like saying everyone with their own natal mars square pluto aspect makes them destined to be molested. The conjunction is, in my opinion, the only aspect that clearly dictates a marriage between these specific people. Because of where my Moon is at 2 56 Scorpio conjunct Pluto at 4 36 Scorpio in the 8th house the men around my age (Im 35);tend to have their Pluto conjunct my Moon/Pluto In my current relationship my boyfriend has Mars/Pluto conjunct my Moon/Pluto. I have not seen it fail in all of my chart work. Asteroids and aspects do not control people. It took me a minute to think about the wounded bird types, but I think you might be right. Conjunction, Opposition, Square, and Trine! 1) What would it mean when my nessus conjuncts his nessus? It makes sense when you consider how deeply Lilith desires to eat/destroy her loves mythologically. You have such a sweet spirit. I have this aspect with someone Im seeing. Obviously the hard ones, like by a square or an opposition, adding to the (possibly) destructive passion! If they are conjunct in synastry, a soul mate connection is indicated. Well, maybe, but dont most abusers have a history of childhood abuse themselves? Why dont you put up your chart in my Forum and ask your question again. That is why I, affectionately, call them too hot not to cool down. There are certain aspects I see in these dark,nuclear passion relationships. there is no contact in real life anymore but the connection via the sexual chakra (either sacral or root chakra ) is still there and very strong. I dont do the Draconic. The chart shows the TRUTH. Amazingly accurate. No point living in fear for aspects that may not play out. Does nessus still be working as a tendency to abuse? Priapus is likewise called a "minor rustic God" or even "an oversexed gardening God." You do not have to do their chart. He was considered irresistible. I read some things. I often see this aspect in the charts of couples who have been married for many years. This isn't always a bad thing, however. The conjunction is excact. If one person's Sun is conjunct Saturn and the other persons Eros is opposite Pluto, the contact will be quite different than if the Sun was conjunct Jupiter and Eros opposite Venus. His natal mars, lilith, pluto conjunction is conjunct my ic and I've distanced myself from him knowing that he has wayyyy too much power over me, but every time I see him I can barely stand and immediately start shaking I am glad my post was helpful! Try to post the charts so see a visual! I know it is not funny but the charts will play out, in my experience, anyway. Most important to me is that you find Jesus. There`s also lot of growth and sweetness and nothing that amounts to abuse. 2) I just looked for the child asteroid and it is on 28 Capricorn, conjuct with my venus 1 Aquarius. When Eros touches the Sun, the energy of both the Sun and Eros awaken between . I need to put it altogether after several hours of study to answer well. There is also a near-exact conjunction of his north node to my Eros. The year started with powerful and forward thinking energy that will assist in elevating us both spiritually and subconsciously.